As we approach our one week anniversary of Easton's birth I feel it necessary to share how one day changed our lives forever.
For those that know me well, I work best off of a regimented schedule. Wednesday, August 22 started off like any other Wednesday. Ryan and I hit the gym at 5:00am, I took a short nap and then it was time to clean. Wednesdays are my cleaning days. I don't know if it was a bit of nesting or what, but I went to town cleaning. I was a mess at the end of the day! It's not usually that intense, but I was feeling great and went with it. Ryan had told me numerous times during my pregnancy to "take it easy" and "let me take care of some of this." My hormones were speaking louder than Ryan's words.
We went to bed early that night, only to be woken up at midnight with intense back pain. This pain was unlike any back pain I had ever felt before. Ryan rubbed my back, I laid on the heating pad, I took a couple Tylenol, but didn't get any relief. I honestly thought it was because I did too much the day before. Two hours later, at 2:00am I passed my mucous plug and around 5:00 my water broke. It wasn't a gush like you see on television or in movies. I really didn't know at the time that I was leaking amniotic fluid.
I ended up dozing off on the couch for a bit. Ryan and I had breakfast and he headed out to work.
Thursdays are my grocery shopping/errand running days. Wanting to knock it out before the grocery store got crowded, I showered and headed out. There were a couple times when I thought maybe this was a bad idea, but I was hardheaded and determined to knock out the day's errands. I ran to Kroger, Publix, Target, the dry cleaners, and the shoe shop. The back pain hadn't let up, in fact it got worse with each stop. I called my friend Teresa around 9:00 and described what was going on. Thank goodness I have her in my life because she fussed at me (with good reason) and sent me home. "Lauren, you are in labor. That fluid is your amniotic fluid. Go home! Tell Ryan to come home! Go to the hospital!" was her response.
I got home around 10:00 and called the doctor. Of course I had to leave a message, so while waiting for a return call I attempted a nap. At this point I was able to recognize that the pain I was feeling also included contractions that were 6 minutes apart. Finally, the doctor called and sent me to Labor and Delivery at Trinity Hospital. Ryan rushed home and we were admitted by 11:30.
With only being dilated one centimeter, we were sent home. We were given all kinds of advice on how to speed the process up - walking, shopping, hot shower, and one bit of advice that Ryan particularly loved hearing. The nurse said that we should have a baby sometime after midnight that night.
We were so excited!! We went to Five Guys and pigged out on cheeseburgers to celebrate. We made a few other stops before heading home. As the afternoon progressed, so did my contractions. We got home around 4:00 and my contractions were 4 minutes apart. We showered, made sure we had everything packed, and tried to mentally prepare for our big night. Ryan was the official time keeper, helping me keep track of how long and often the contractions were coming. By 6:30, I had had enough. Contractions were 2-3 minutes apart and I was officially ready for my epidural!
We got admitted to the hospital again and everything went into fast forward! When the nurses checked me, I had dilated to 5 centimeters and my contractions were 2 minutes apart, becoming more extreme. at 7:30, I had dilated to 8 centimeters. Things were moving. The nurses were shocked! The anesthesiologist had gone home for the day and had to be paged. I was certain he wouldn't make it in time. Ryan and the nurses helped me with my breathing and rubbed my back. At one point I was on all fours on the floor (talk about embarrassing). It was after 8:00 when the anesthesiologist FINALLY came and by that time I was a full 10 centimeters dilated, ready to start pushing! The doctor still wanted me to have some medication, but not the full dose, just to help with pushing. I had to sit on the edge of the bed, through intense contractions as he injected the medicine in my back. I was told not to move, which wasn't easy to do. Before the medicine could take effect, I was told to start pushing.
Ryan held one leg and the nurse held the other. The doctor arrived (not mine, the one on call) and it was all business for the next 30 minutes.
At 9:15pm, Easton James Kilbreth made his BIG entrance into the world, weighing in at a whopping 8 lbs 15 ounces! The diameter of his head was 13 1/2 centimeters! He was a product of all that Greek yogurt I pigged out on during pregnancy!
Ryan and I were both instant cry babies and couldn't hold in our emotions. Before they washed Easton off we were given a few minutes of cuddle time. This was amazing!
Trinity Hospital is known for their family-focused childbirth unit, so Easton was washed up right there in the room. Ryan went crazy snapping pictures. We were FINALLY parents!! As soon as Easton was cleaned up, he was swaddled and the snuggling began. We couldn't take our hands off of him!!
I instantly fell more in love with Ryan during all of this as well. Ryan and I have always had an intense connection, and having Easton made us that much closer. I am truly blessed to be married to such an amazing and supportive husband. He is gift from God.
Overall, this pregnancy was super easy and the delivery was extremely short. There is no doubt that this was the Lord's plan. He wanted us to be parents, and not just any child's parents, Easton's parents. All the glory goes to Him!